Let's talk about sex baby
I really hate how with certain people I can’t be myself, that I have to reel it in with people because they cant handle my personality. I hate it.
I’m a confident, bubbly person who happens to be sexually confident and like to talk about sex. Sex; a natural act that happens amongst humans.
Some people will hear the word sex come out of my mouth and cringe and look at me with disgust.
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You okay with the word now? Still disgusted? If you are then I honestly don't understand. It’s a simple word, people don't need to be uncomfortable with the word and people certainly don't need to make other people feel uncomfortable talking about sex!
It is honestly the worst thing ever when I'm made to feel uncomfortable - especially when you're not even in the conversation I’m having.
There have been so many times where me and my friends will talk about sex or nudes or whatever and people around me will look at me with disgust as if I’ve just announced that I've committed a horrendous crime. I really haven’t. I’m literally talking about a natural thing that happens with us human beings.
Another thing, nudes, why do they have to be such a private thing? Not even just nudes, bra pics?
Why can’t I put a bra pic on twitter without any controversy, without people judging me?
It honestly confuses me so much because a model or someone you don't know can put up a bra pic and it’s chill, but me or someone else does it and WW3 has started!
Surely I can do what I want with MY body?
Part of me just wants to be like, fuck what everyone has to say and I’ll do what I want but constantly having people get at me for sharing a body that I love is tiring and annoying. I shouldn't care about what people say but I do, most people do so shitty comments is really shit to be honest.
I get looked down on because I’m a happy sexually liberated person but it’s like people can’t understand this. I don't look down on people who chose not to have sex or whatever but people want to judge me?
I’m tired of the judgement seriously, If I wanna post my boobs and you don’t like it, that’s chill, because I was not looking for your seal of approval. As we’re told in primary school ‘if you’ve got nothing nice to say, then don’t say it’.
Don’t judge people for openly talking about sex - they’re not hurting you with this topic, they are simply talking about something they want to talk about.
So let us talk about sex baby and stop being a judgemental person.
There is nothing wrong with talking about sex, if you don't want talk about sex then cool but other people do so chill.
Written by: Quenelle Forbes